The whole drill, the torture against me, was for nothing else than to avoid THEIR old unloved feelings from former times, which my NON-parents never wanted to feel ever again. And I – the baby, the child, the teenager, the adult – should not trigger them in any way! What they did, what they burdened…
Category: Letters to Barbara
Reflections on Healing
Dear Barbara I read your “On My Side” link and could really identify with what you shared; so here is a letter to Barbara on my reflections into healing journey… for your empathic consideration. Warmest Regards, Gerald Reflections into Healing Deep healing for me comes from owning and accepting all of life’s energies within myself….
Kathrin Krost
Dear Barbara Rogers, While surfing the internet i found your site and i can really say YES by heart what you write in your article “spirituality” cements childhood blindness” and also escape from the fog of admiration. These are one of the most healing articles i ever read. Thank you for saying the truth. Greetings…
Mini Life Book for Gerald, Norman and Geraldine
Hi Barbara, … the rest of the story below !!! Your trusted feedback is welcomed. Best Regards….Gerald ********** Mini Life Book for Gerald, Norman and Geraldine My fraternal Twin sister and I were born on August 12 1944. I was named Gerald Norman and my sister was named Geraldine Normande.There is no mention of a…
Paula – the unnoticed injury
Dear Barbara, I have tonight been trying to get some resolve, further insight into some words that come to my head. . and though I’ve been working on it for years, today is the day I’ve tried to search for anything that may be similar in someone else. . your therapy writing “getting to know…
Martin Miller’s book about his mother Alice
The Mask of the Children’s Rights Activist by Caroline Fetscher Outwardly, Alice Miller stood for the empathetic and non-violent education of children, thereby becoming a star of pedagogy. Her own son came to know a very different woman. The book, which he now has written at the age of 63, is not an accusation….
A Letter to Marilyn Van Derbur
Despite my Father’s Misogyny, Despite the Incest, I became a Strong, Spirited and Daring Woman “If you violate your children, they may not speak today, but as we gather our strength and stand beside them, they will, one day, speak your name. They will speak every single name. It is not my father’s reputation that…